Confidence: An Important Topic

Feeling nervous before taking an online class is completely normal. You're not alone. Many of the students I've worked with, from Asia and beyond, have shared the same concern. They have the worry of being judged or the hesitation to speak up.

This is what I've learned through my experience as both a teacher and a language learner: confidence in online learning isn't something that happens right away. It's something you actively build, one class at a time.

Start Where You Are Comfortable

You don't have to jump straight into spontaneous speaking.

In my classes, I focus on creating a comfortable environment where you're always welcomed but never pressured.

For those moments when speaking feels intimidating, we can start with call-and-response practice, where we repeat words and sentences together. This approach is a powerful, low-pressure way to build both confidence and competence in the language.

Gradually, as you feel more secure, you'll naturally transition to speaking more on your own.

Preparation Builds Confidence

Before your class starts, take a few minutes to prepare.

Have your materials ready, test your audio and lighting, and choose a quiet space.

Even small things, like dressing the part, even if it's just from the waist up, can shift your mindset and help you feel more focused.

When the technical side is handled, you can focus entirely on learning.

Managing Concerns About Being Judged

One of the most common concerns I hear from students, particularly adults learning English for business, is the fear of being judged by colleagues or others.

In a one-on-one online lesson, you're in a dedicated, safe space that's focused solely on your progress.

This shift in perspective can be surprisingly powerful in easing anxieties.

The Leap from Translating to Thinking in English

A significant breakthrough many of my students experience is moving from translating sentences in their heads to actually thinking in English.

This transition doesn't happen overnight, but it absolutely comes through consistent practice and exposure.

And here's a key insight from my own journey as a language student: don't underestimate the power of what happens between classes.

Your brain is continuously processing, making new connections, and building deeper understanding even when you're not actively studying.

As long as you keep showing up and making a sincere effort, new insights will inevitably emerge.

Strategic Engagement: You Don't Have to Be "On" All the Time

If video feels too vulnerable at first, start with your camera off if you prefer.

Aim to ask just one question per class. That's already enough to make progress.

The goal is participation rather than performance. Each small step counts.

Consistency is The Key

Whether you're learning for business, exams, or conversation practice, the core formula remains the same: show up regularly, engage genuinely, and trust the process.

Each class builds upon the last. Your confidence grows not from perfection, but from consistent participation.

My conversation classes are specifically designed to support you on this journey. They are judgment-free, paced to your needs, and built on the understanding that you already have what you need to succeed. Feel free to contact me if you would like to participate. 


Wishing you the best in your online learning!